Counseling - Paul's reply : Dating Breakup
Situation - Dating breakup Needing prayers , not only for me but the woman who broke up with me. I am very hurt but she needs healing in her life more than I could offer her My Reply : Break up - has different situations. 1. An emotional distress - unable to support and to love 2. A decision was made : "to be left alone". 3. Each person goes a separate way (no strings attached ) Stay grounded with God's words. Talk to someone you trusted. If needed, talk to a Christian counselor. Usually, there are communication gaps and unmet needs prior to the "breakup". Usually, a man wants to protect, to provide companionship of the woman he loved -- being a rescuer. The relationship is often "tug-of-war" -being close then drift apart. (I need you , then I don't need you ). ---------------------- Being a man, stay cool. Pray God will bring her back . In the meantime, be the person for the "right" relationship. (whether with the same person or a ...